Safety & Consent

CONSENSUAL
HIERARCHY.

Obey is a tool for pre-established, consensual dynamics. Technology should support, not replace, fundamental relationship safety protocols.

Communication First

All dynamics must be established offline with clear communication. Safe words and hard limits must be discussed and respected. The app is a log of your agreement, not the agreement itself.

Ongoing Consent

Consent is enthusiastic and revocable. Both the Alpha and the Devoted have the right to pause or end the digital protocol at any time.

Notice of Misuse

The use of Obey for non-consensual coercion, harassment, or illegal activity is strictly prohibited. We reserve the right to ban any account found violating these principles of basic safety and human dignity.